The White Lotus star Sam Nivola speaks out about gay incest scene amid calls for boycott

By Abby Amoakuh

Published Mar 25, 2025 at 12:43 PM

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In this strange age, it has become increasingly difficult to shock people but somehow The White Lotus creator Mike White managed to do just that in episode six of the show’s third season. It featured more suicidal mania by a fallen tycoon, greater ruptures within a friendship triangle tethering towards collapse, and the incestious tension between the Ratliff brothers that has been broiling for episodes finally being enacted. Audiences observed with shock and disgust as the two partook in the same threesome, resulting in online vitriol, boycott calls, and actor Sam Nivola setting the record straight about their strange relationship.

For context, episode five left the brothers off drunk and drugged out at a boat party, with party girls Chelsea and the enigmatic Chloe, who had her eyes set on Lochlan (played by Sam Nivola). And besides one playful kiss between the siblings, as the women present egged them on, the incest in the episode remained relatively limited.

In episode six, however, his older brother Saxon experiences flashbacks of the now nebulous night in question. This includes memories of him having sex with Chloe, followed by Lochlan sleeping with the former model… with him lying next to them… masturbating. And unfortunately, it gets weirder than that. Much, much weirder… Saxon realises that Lochlan was jerking him off at one point, leaving him sick to his stomach as the knowledge settles in.

Of course, Saxon insists that they “both blacked out” and blames the drugs for the controversial incident, however, that explanation doesn’t seem entirely convincing to Chloe, who mocks the siblings.

Fans have quickly taken to social media to share their thoughts about this bizarre twist, with some even vowing to boycott the show:

What did Sam Nivola say about The White Lotus’ incest sex scene?

Sam Nivola, the 21-year-old actor who plays Lochlan, spoke with Variety about the infamous sixth episode of season three to dissect what it was like to film that scene: “I was totally nervous. I’m a very anxious person, so I’m always nervous, especially on a big job like that. Doing the sex scene was nerve-racking, and we were on a boat, and I get seasick, so that was fucking stressful. The actual scene itself went smoothly.”

He continued: “In the scene, Patrick and I are brothers, with this girl who we just met like the day before. It was very weird kissing Patrick because he’s a really good friend of mine. And, you know, I’m straight, he’s straight. It’s already weird. It would have been easier if that was the first time we were meeting. Weirdly, it was easier to do things with Charlotte because there were no stakes. It’s just this person I’ve just met. But Patrick was already like a brother to me. It felt sort of fucked up.”

Fortunately, the scene benefitted from an intimacy coordinator, who was able to ease the tension. It’s something the actor expressed gratitude for, considering that this was his first sex scene ever.

And Variety also didn’t shy away from asking the one question that has been on everyone’s mind since starting the new season. Is Lochlan sexually attracted to his brother? If you’re like me, you’re probably scared to know the answer…

“I think it’s something else. I think it comes from a sense of insecurity. He really looks up to both of his siblings, not from the point of view of a physical attraction,” he replied.

“It’s more curiosity, and trying to figure out which kind of person he is going to become. He tries to connect with him in whatever way he can. I think Lochlan is a people pleaser, who will try to get people to like him by any means necessary. Looking at Saxon while he’s jerking off is not a sexual thing—it’s more that he’s studying him: ‘Who is this guy? How can I get him to like me? How can I become more like him?’ What he learns over the first few episodes is that Saxon is the sex guy. His primary motive in life is to make money and get laid. So, the thing on the boat is Lochlan’s tragically misguided attempt at being like, ‘So, you’re the sex guy. Let’s do something in that realm and try to connect in some way.’ It’s obviously a big swing and a miss.”

It’s probably not just me who just sighed with relief, right? Well, The White Lotus is going to come back for two more episodes that will likely deliver just as much as fierce bite, shock, and strange delight.

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