Be it Kim Kardashian and Pete Davidson or Charli D’Amelio and Landon Barker, dating in the public eye can be quite challenging and every week there seems to be a new celebrity couple calling it quits. Apart from making it almost impossible to maintain healthy relationships, fame also renders celebrities unable to find people who they are actually compatible with and not just someone who wants to date them because of their reputation.

This is one of the reasons most public figures have sworn not to date their fans. But not all hope is lost. From meeting their favourite idol at a concert and local coffee shop to meticulously stalking them online and even manifesting their marriage, more than a handful of stans have made their dreams come true by dating superstars in real life.

Here are ten instances that prove how a chance meeting between a celebrity and a fan can lead to an unlikely love story:

In 2011, a die-hard Jake T. Austin fan named Danielle Caesar met the Wizards of Waverly Place star (who played Max Russo on the show) at a meet-and-greet in New York City before she started tweeting about him constantly for the next five years. Some of Caesar’s tweets read: “Me and @jaketaustin are getting married. Shhh =x he just doesn’t know it yet 😉 yes I know I’m a freak :D”

Turns out, Caesar was indeed a freak—a freak-ing genius who literally manifested a relationship with her idol! In 2016, the then-21-year-old actor confirmed the unlikely union with an intimate selfie of the pair kissing on Instagram. He also tagged Caesar’s account in the photo and captioned the post: “I’m crazy for her 💙”

When the Daily News reached out to Austin for comments on his relationship at the time, he reportedly “downplayed” the couple’s origin story. “We’re young and having fun just getting to know each other. It doesn’t matter how you meet someone—on set, in a coffee shop, at school or in the business,” he said. “Sometimes you connect with people at the right moment and you just click.” I expect to be in a committed relationship with Noah Centineo by the time you finish reading this article, thank you.

On-and-off couple Liam Payne and Maya Henry first met when the then-15-year-old model attended a One Direction concert in 2015 and hung out with the boys at a meet-and-greet. Roughly four years later, Payne was rumoured to have started dating Henry just a few weeks after his split from singer Cheryl Cole. The pair were even spotted going on a number of dates in London.

It was then that they broke up briefly, before getting back together in the summer of 2019. The pair later went on to confirm their relationship publicly for the first time in August 2019 but were reported to have split in February 2020—later reconciling in August 2020 by announcing their engagement, only to break things off in June 2021 and get back together again in August 2021. Is it just me or is anyone else starting to see a pattern here? All of this to say that the couple has presently ended things “for good” in April 2022. Now, who’s waiting for August to come around?

When Christian Bale was interviewed by Easy Living magazine, the Batman Begins star revealed that he was against the idea of marriage. “Everyone was divorced in my family so I didn’t have very healthy ideas about marriage,” he admitted. But all of that changed when he met Sibi Blažić, who was working as Winona Ryder’s personal assistant at the time. Given how Bale and Ryder became close friends after filming the 1994 adaptation of Little Women together, the latter introduced Bale to Blažić and they instantly hit it off.

In 2000, Bale and Blažić eloped to Las Vegas when he was 26-years-old and she was 30. Five years after their marriage, the pair welcomed a daughter named Emmeline. In August 2015, they also had a son, though both children have been fiercely kept out of the spotlight by Bale.

During an interview with The Wall Street Journal, Bale also talked about Blažić’s role in The Dark Knight Rises. “My wife was a stunt driver—she was chasing me through the city in [the movie]. She was driving one of the cop cars. She can do 180s and stunts and all that,” he said, adding, “She terrifies me. My wife terrifies me.”

Joe Jonas may have found the real love of his life now with Game of Thrones actress Sophie Turner, but in his Jonas Brothers era, the star has admitted to picking up fans at his own concerts.

In a 2013 interview with Vulture, Jonas said, “And, yes, I’ve dated fans. I can’t say that I’ve never put a foot in that world—there were times when I definitely took advantage of the opportunities I had. I remember I invited a fan to a movie, and we just made out the entire time. I don’t even remember what the movie was about. I must have been 16 or so.” Three years later during his appearance on Watch What Happens Live, the star further revealed that there have been times when he’d invite a fan backstage only to realise that they liked his brothers more than him.

“But it doesn’t always work out if you’re like, ‘Hey, why don’t you get that girl’s number for me?’ and then they’re more of a Nick or Kevin fan,” he told host Andy Cohen. “That’s never fun. Then it bites you in the ass.”

Nicholas Cage met Alice Kim in 2004 at a Los Angeles restaurant called Kabuki where she worked as a waitress. Kim was 19 at the time and Cage was 40 but the pair tied the knot two months later nevertheless. “We did it because we loved each other,” Cage told The Guardian in 2013. “When my mother-in-law came to the house for the first time, before even [a] hello or nice to meet you, all I got was, ‘she’s too young!’ And so I knew this was going to be an uphill battle.”

A year after their marriage, the couple welcomed their only son, Kal-El. “I made a very clear decision to marry out of my own zip code,” Cage continued, crediting Kim for his stable lifestyle. “I married into another culture, and it’s interesting because in Korea they call me the ‘Son-in-Law’.” However, the two separated in January 2016. Two years later, Cage told The Guardian that their split was “a shocker for me—I definitely didn’t see it coming.”

In 2013, fans slammed Harry Styles for hooking up with an admirer named Alexis Allen after she was spotted in one of his concerts holding a sign which read: “We’re legal!” Netizens quickly initiated a barrage of abuse against the poor fan—who was eventually forced to delete all traces of herself from social media sites. Four years later, however, the then-23-years-old Styles was introduced to Townes Adair Jones through mutual friends while he was on a break from recording his album.

“They were set up on a blind date and it was sort of a natural thing, they really hit it off,” a source told the Daily Mail at the time. “They only met once but both had a memorable night, so memorable that it inspired Harry to write a song about her.” Lo and behold, ‘Carolina’, where Styles sings: “I met her once and wrote a song about her, I wanna scream, I wanna shout it out, I hope she hears me now.”

Heck, Styles even dropped Townes’ first name in the song, leaving his fans wondering who the mystery girl was back then. The lyrics go: “So far from home. She never saw herself as a West Coaster. Moved all the way ‘cause her grandma told her, ‘Townes, better swim before you drown’.”

Steve Harvey met Marjorie Bridges during one of his shows at a Memphis comedy club in 1990. As noted by Essence, Harvey was on stage when he saw Bridges walking into the room and arriving late for his show. He then paused his set and said, “I don’t know who you are but I’m going to marry you.” The comedian also went on to admit that he “quit breathing” the first time he laid eyes on Bridges.

Although the pair started dating, Steve reportedly “disappeared” because he wanted to focus on his career. Essence quoted him as saying, “Before a man can be of use to a woman… he’s got to know who he is, what he does and how much he’s going to make.” Years later, in 2007, Harvey finally popped the question and tied the knot with Bridges—paving the way to his most successful marriage at 15 years and counting.

Katie Holmes once used to tell her Dawson’s Creek castmates about her crush on Tom Cruise, noting that she even had a poster of the Top Gun movie star on her wall. In an interview with Seventeen magazine in 2004, Holmes further admitted, “I think every little girl dreams about [her wedding]. I used to think I was going to marry Tom Cruise.”

Well, Holmes’ manifestation fruitioned in May 2005—when she started dating her idol and got engaged mere weeks later. In 2006, the couple also welcomed a daughter named Suri. Soon after getting together, Holmes also reportedly converted to Scientology for Cruise. In 2012, however, Holmes filed for a divorce “due to fear of Cruise abducting their child into Scientology.”

Zac Efron met Vanessa Valladares when she was waitressing at Byron Bay General Store & Cafe in Australia back in 2020. In September, People reported that Efron had been house hunting and planned on “staying in Australia permanently.”

“Things moved quickly, and Vanessa spends most nights at Zac’s house. They are both very smitten with each other,” a source told Us Weekly at the time. In April 2021, E! got rare details on the two’s relationship, with a source telling the outlet that Valladares “quit her job so she can have the flexibility to travel with him.” But just when things were looking up for the couple, they called their 10-month-long relationship quits in the same year.

Despite the fact that Kim Kardashian and Kanye “Ye” West’s relationship has been one of the most controversial ones in the public eye to date, their history can actually be traced back to 2003—when Kardashian was working as a stylist for Brandy. At the time, however, she was dating Brandy’s younger brother, Ray J, and is said to have immediately “friendzoned” Ye. Although both the celebrities had a lot of random meetings over the years, the timing was “just never right.”

It was only in 2006, after seeing a viral picture of Kardashian with Paris Hilton, that Ye was truly smitten and asked a friend if he’d ever heard of this “Kim Kar-dijon” woman. “I just knew I wanted her to be my girl for a long time,” Ye said in an interview with Ryan Seacrest in 2013. “I remember I saw a picture of her and Paris Hilton, and I remember telling my boy, ‘Have you seen that girl Kim Kar-dijon?’.”

There’s nothing too surprising about celebrities wanting to change their legal birth name—all actors, writers and musicians are choosing to live in the realm of make-believe, after all. Obviously, they’ve got to change their name before the world gets to hear their less memorable version. In fact, a name can actually be the make or break to their success in the spotlight. It’s got to be punchy enough to remember, different enough to whose names are already out there waltzing around being famous and, let’s be honest, easy to spell or say in any language. Sorry, the main actress in Ex Machina, you’re an A-lister, but you will forever be the name of your films rather than your own…

Here are 20 celebrities that dodged the danger of being forgotten and changed their names early enough to survive on the red carpet. Spoiler alert: it’s not only the real names behind their facades that shocked us, it’s the reasons behind the changes as well.

Of course I had to start with the poster girl of stardom, our babe Marilyn Monroe who, surprisingly, wasn’t quite born as sparkly as she sounds. Instead, her real name paints the picture of a midwestern gal that chews gum vigorously with her mouth open. She was actually born Norma Jeane Mortenson, but was baptised with the surname Baker and later married into Dougherty—mouthful central. And so, legally her name changed to Marilyn Monroe in 1956, although she had been using the name for years prior to it becoming official.

According to TIME Magazine, the name was juggled between suggestions after she signed a contract with 20th Century Fox in 1946, until finally studio executive, Ben Lyon, offered up what we all know her to be today.

 

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You’d think that famous parents would know how to stage name their own child, but evidently not. Miley Cyrus, albeit destiny had her career path decided either way, was once literally called Destiny Hope Cyrus. I know. Thankfully, the name Miley came from a nickname her father Billy Ray Cyrus used to call her when she was little, Smiley, which was further shortened to Miley. The actress-turned-pop star legally changed her name in 2008, two years after the hit show Hannah Montana first aired in 2006.

It took me a few reads over to see that one too—it actually started as a silly misspelling. Talk show host, author and overall ultra-famous person, Oprah Winfrey, was actually named Orpah Winfrey. The name was supposed to be inspired by a biblical figure in The Book of Ruth, but no one knew how to spell or pronounce it properly so it gradually morphed into what we know today as Oprah. A name so strong that it’s recognised on a first name as only name basis. Nailed it.

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A classic ‘who got there first’ moment is singer Katy Perry changing her name from Katheryn Hudson, to avoid being confused with the already famous actress Kate Hudson. Born and raised in Southern California as the middle child of two Christian ministers, non-religious music was forbidden at home. Perry grew up singing hymns, then moved to Los Angeles to try to make it in the secular music realm (aka, tunes that probably would offend the church) which is when she adopted her mother’s maiden name ‘Perry’ instead.

After a slow start to stardom and a couple of record label failures, in 2007, Capitol Records saw the potential in the wannabe singer and put out Perry’s EP Ur So Gay, and then the song only a few don’t know, ‘I Kissed a Girl’. I won’t delve into what the church thinks of her now, but Perry, we love you, ok? 

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Stand up comedian turned actor, Eric Marlon Bishop, or rather, Jamie Foxx, is as sneaky and sly as his namesake. Foxx explained the reason behind the name change to David Letterman on the Late Show and said that when he was starting out on stages, he clocked onto the fact that female comedians were so rare they would always score a slot. “So I went to the list and wrote down unisex names. Stacy Green, Tracy Brown… Jamie Foxx! And I’m the first guy called. He goes, ‘Jamie Foxx, is she here?’ I said, ‘No, brother, that’s me.’ And then I go on stage and I get a standing ovation,” he shared. Cheeky, we know, but what would the comedy scene be without our Foxx?

Lorde was Ella Marj-who? I can’t even read that let alone say it all in one go. So thank you, Lorde, from all of us. But also kudos to you—your fame depended on it. Although still just ‘Ella’ to her friends and family, the New Zealand songstress told Interview Magazine that when she was coming up with a stage name, she thought ‘Lord’ was “super rad,” but apparently too masculine. “Ever since I was a little kid, I have been really into royals and aristocracy, so to make ‘Lord’ more feminine, I just put an e on the end! Some people think it’s religious, but it’s not,” she revealed.

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Another one namer, Rihanna (meaning ‘sweet basil’ in Arabic) is actually Robyn Rihanna Fenty. According to an interview she did with The Rolling Stone, most of her friends and family still call her that too. “I get kind of numb to hearing Rihanna, Rihanna, Rihanna,” she said, but “when I hear Robyn, I pay attention.” She is one of the few celebs who make full use of their real name. It’s even been categorised in a way that makes complete sense: first name for her friends and family, middle name for all of us and surname for her business venture, Fenty.

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If there ever was a purely loveable reason to change a name, it would be Frank Ocean’s reason. Born Christopher Edwin Breaux, as we can I’m sure by now understand how much a name can shape one’s life, the musician later decided to metaphorically shed his skin and rebirth his identity. In a 2011 interview with Complex he revealed that he changed his name on his birthday the year before (so 2010) and “it was the most empowering sh*t I did for sure. I went on LegalZoom and changed my f*cking name. It just felt cool. None of us are our names. If you don’t like your name then change your name.” Simple.

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As far as celebrity status goes, we have self-proclaimed Lorde’s, and of course, we have Legend’s too. Fake it ‘till you make it, friends. Born in Ohio as John Roger Stephens, by college he was directing an a cappella group at the University of Pennsylvania, which is also around the same time he met fellow songwriter and artist Kanye West. From there, a partnership was born that allowed them both to climb the fame ladder. According to an interview with The List, it was during these early days that the name came to stick. Legend stated, “The first guy to call me that was J. Ivy. He’s a spoken word artist from Chicago. I met him through Kanye.” And according to Today, he further shared, “We were all in the studio together. He just started calling me ‘The Legend’ because he thought I sounded like one of our old school soul legends. And it just caught on with our little group of friends, and then they were like, ‘We should call you John Legend.’ And it just really was in our little circle.”

Started from the Bottom now we’re… stop it. Talk about soaring from the ashes—alright, I’ll stop. Who we know as Joaquin Phoenix was born Joaquín Rafael Bottom. He actually self-named himself ‘Leaf’ Phoenix as a child, to be more like his two older siblings, Rain and River. His younger siblings were Liberty and Summer—you can tell why he felt a little left out. The actor’s parents were part of a religious cult called The Children of God, but left it and renamed the family name as Phoenix to symbolise their rebirth.

Peter? Who would’ve thought? In an interview with GQ, the singer explained that he had actually been nicknamed Bruno his entire life because as a toddler he resembled the wrestler Bruno Sammartino. He was born to a Puerto Rican Jewish percussionist from Brooklyn and a singer and dancer from the Philippines who met in Hawaii. Bruno Hernandez didn’t match up to his genre in music though, as he explained to the publication that the name stereotyped him into Latin or Spanish music. To avoid that, he adopted the surname Mars.

Nicki Minaj told The Guardian that she wasn’t the one to choose her stage name, someone else did, “One of the first production deals I signed, the guy wanted my name to be Minaj and I fought him tooth and nail. But he convinced me. I’ve always hated it.” The rapper stated that she prefers to be called by her real name by close friends and family. And although she took baby steps into using the name and began using Nicki Maraj, when it came to being signed by a record label, she was cornered into what name would sell better.

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Minaj is one tough cookie too—with a difficult start in life, she committed her career to making enough money to look after her mother. Her father had issues with drugs and alcohol which led to abuse, Minaj told Rolling Stone, “When I first came to America, I would go in my room and kneel down at the foot of my bed and pray that God would make me rich so that I could take care of my mother. Because I always felt like if I took care of my mother, my mother wouldn’t have to stay with my father, and he was the one at the time, that was bringing us pain. We didn’t want him around at all, and so I always felt like being rich would cure everything, and that was always what drove me.”

Scottish musician Calvin Harris changed his name from Adam Richard Wiles for a somewhat surprising reason. He explained in a 2009 interview that he used the name Calvin Harris in an attempt to become “racially ambiguous.” Harris said that “my first single was more of a soul track, and I thought Calvin Harris sounded a bit more racially ambiguous. I thought people might not know if I was black or not. After that, I was stuck with it.” Oookay then.

Alecia Beth Moore was nicknamed Pink, at first for a rather sad reason. According to The Things, the singer used to get bullied at summer camp by kids who would pull her trousers down, leading her to blush so hard they’d call her Pink.

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She owned it though, and the name solidified after the singer was inspired by Steve Buscemi’s character Mr Pink in Reservoir Dogs. The List reported that she ran into the actor in New York before her first album came out. “I had these big f*cking Elton John glasses on, pink hair and carried a Pink Panther toy. I went ‘Steve! Mr Pink! I’m Pink! Because of you! I’m going to have an album and you’re going to know who I am!’ And he was like ‘What the f*ck, lady?’ and just ran away from me. I’ve never met him since.”

Neta-Lee Hershlag, or as we know her, Natalie Portman, was born in Jerusalem to her father, an Israeli gynaecologist named Avner Hershlag, and her mother, Shelly Stevens. The Stevens family changed their name from Edelstein when they arrived in the US from Russia and Austria. According to Britannica, the actress changed her name primarily for privacy reasons, because at just 13-years-old, the actress landed a role in Léon: The Professional—a film with obvious (and uncomfortable) sexual undertones—and the young star wanted to protect herself from unwanted attention.

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Actress Whoopi Goldberg might just be my favourite name change on this list. Born as Caryn Elaine Johnson, she was eventually nicknamed ‘Whoopie’ because of her whoopee cushion-like nature, if you get what I mean. The actress apparently had friends who noticed she had a bit of a flatulence problem while working in a theatre in San Diego, and the no-shame Whoopi told The New York Times that “if you get a little gassy, you’ve got to let it go. So people used to say to me, ‘You’re like a whoopee cushion’. And that’s where the name came from.” What a queen. As for her last name Goldberg, Whoopi’s mother felt her daughter should take a name that was part of the family heritage, which was in fact Jewish, so Whoopi Goldberg was born.

Soon after gaining fame as a stage actor and then film actor in the movie Gandhi (1982), for which he won an Academy Award, Ben Kingsley gave up his birth name Krishna Pandit Bhanji because he feared that a foreign name would jeopardise the success of his acting career.

Another name bites the dust as what was once Maurice Joseph Micklewhite became the internationally well-known Michael Caine. The actor explained to New York Magazine that based on the advice from an agent, he named himself after Humphrey Bogart’s character in The Caine Mutiny (1954) and said that “Bogart was my hero, and even though he came from a sort of snobby, aristocratic family—he was a distant relation of Princess Diana—when I was a kid I thought he was a tough guy. The American cinema in general always made stories about working-class people; the British rarely did. Any person with my working-class background would be a villain or a comic cypher, usually badly played, and with a rotten accent. There weren’t a lot of guys in England for me to look up to.”

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As a nepotism baby, the actress has writers trailing throughout her family tree and her parents Andrew and Leslie Cockburn are well-known international journalists. As well as playing Gwendolen in Oscar Wilde’s The Importance of Being Earnest in high school, the actress revealed to Vogue, that her name change was “in honour of family members who wrote under pen names and for her love of Oscar Wilde [that] she left Cockburn behind.” Phew!

Stardom doesn’t really get much bigger than Brad Pitt, but if he’d kept his first name as his first name to us, would he still embody the essence of the Brad Pitt we’ve come to know and love? The actor dropped William to go by Bradley and soon after shortened it upon leaving Missouri school—which he also dropped out of, missing graduation, because “he just could not wait anymore to start pursuing his movie career,” as stated by The List.