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2021 taught us it’s okay to say ‘no’. 2022 will be the year we finally say it freely

We’ve done it everyone—we can finally say ‘it’s a wrap’ on a year that brought some complicated emotions in its wake, to say the least. While that’s undeniable, in many ways, 2021 will also be remembered as a year of progression. More than 8.47 billion COVID-19 vaccinations were administered globally in a truly hot vax summer fashion, Donald Trump was finally banned from Twitter, and NASA’s Perseverance casually made oxygen on Mars. No biggy. Also, we saw the appearance and obsession of NFTs, which we now know are the way forward for artists and creatives to earn a living. Hopefully, those were worth the wait. I don’t think anyone really understands how they work just yet, but oh well, we have 2022 for that.

2021 was also home to some of our greatest, most wholesome pop culture moments yet. We got the Friends reunion we had all been begging for, Rihanna was declared a “national hero” of her home country, Barbados, and Paris Hilton finally found love and got married. I mean, even Avril Lavigne made an iconic comeback and joined TikTok (along with every other celebrity you can think of, making us feel closer to them than ever) while Britney Spears was freed from her conservatorship, at long last.

My favourite part of 2021? Us as a society having to learn how to prioritise ourselves and ask for more; for better. Perhaps it was watching Spears go up against her own family—her own abusers—in one of the biggest and most publicised lawsuits of the decade or Adele letting us know that “divorce, babes, divorce” can be a good thing. Whatever the inspiration behind this crucial societal shift, we learned that ‘no’ doesn’t have to be a dirty word. Actually, it’s rather freeing.

After the third lockdown lifted and restrictions eased, it seemed our attitudes changed. We were less afraid and more aware of how much time we unintentionally waste. We were more willing to spend some cash, to do the activities we’ve had on our bucket lists for years, to pull a sicky and go spend time with our loved ones instead.

A real watershed moment was when Simone Biles withdrew from the women’s gymnastics team Olympic finals in Tokyo this summer. In doing so, Biles demonstrated how much courage it takes to put your own needs first. To put your mental health above anything else. ‘No’ is a word we’ve always struggled with, especially in Britain, where our entire personalities seem based on politeness and bottling up our own feelings. Yet Biles proved that it could and should be used, setting a 2021 full of saying ‘no’ when needed.

This was further proven in the movement aptly named ‘The Great Resignation’, as so many of us truly said ‘fuck it’ and quit our shitty jobs to pursue something we were truly passionate about. Recent figures from HR Review show almost one in 20 workers in the UK resigned during the pandemic—just one segment of the global workforce sacking off their jobs in their search for something more fulfilling. If there is any greater joy in the world than quitting, it is everyone in the world quitting at once because we know we deserve better.

It seems that this year, we all decided our dream job was not working at all. Perhaps three lockdowns were enough for us to think about how much better family time might be over meaningless labour, or maybe we just got finally sick of our exploitative bosses. Either way, the seismic pandemic led us to focus on what matters to us, not just when it comes to our jobs, but in all aspects of our lives too. We learned to reject what doesn’t make us feel happy, healthy or safe, and boy does that feel good.

Despite the fun moments, 2021 was also undeniably a year of grief. No matter how determined we all were to have fun this year, that loss hit even harder. Considering these challenges and dismal events, to put it lightly, that also occurred in 2021, there couldn’t have been a better time for us to learn the versatile power of ‘no’ and start demanding more from those in power.

Political unrest, climate anxiety, health concerns and misogynistic violence lingered over us as we tried to turn our backs on a painful 2020, and make the most of a brand new year. In the wake of the murders of Sarah Everard, Sabina Nessa and sisters Nicole Smallman and Bibaa Henry—to name but a few—we, as women and feminine-presenting people, spent a lot of 2021 feeling afraid.

Subsequently and unsurprisingly, a lack of trust in governing bodies—whether it be in the justice system or our actual government—has followed. According to a YouGov poll, half of women have lost trust in the UK police. The survey showed 47 per cent of women said their trust in the police had decreased since the details of Wayne Couzens’ crimes were aired and other high-profile examples of police forces’ misogynistic cultures followed. Additionally, even 40 per cent of men said they also lost trust in the police following these crimes.

What’s more, a third of British citizens said they no longer trust the government. And why would we? With the constant fear of lockdown looming over us with no clear direction, their own former advisor Dominic Cummings speaking out against them, receipts in hand, and numerous illegal Christmas parties being held by the Tories during the third lockdown, they’re not exactly a trustworthy bunch.

Meanwhile, discourse over LGBTQ+ rights have dominated the headlines—someone please get JK Rowling and Dave Chappelle some professional help—as anti-LGBTQ hate crime reports rose by 210 per cent. You’d hope, given those numbers, that those in power would want to help reduce violence. But instead, LGBTQ+ artists and activists had to do the work themselves. It’s a little disappointing to be constantly carrying the weight, but their work is inspiring as always. Despite a storm of hatred towards transgender people making up an unfortunately huge part of the year, transgender artists really did dominate 2021. Torrey PetersDetransition, Baby flipped the script on trans representation in literature and Shon Faye’s The Transgender issue became an instant Sunday Times bestseller. Not to mention, Lil Nas X, Girl in Red, Arlo Parks, and We are The Union made sure LGBTQ+ folk still felt represented in the charts.

While the statistics are certainly bleak, they also reflect a time of change and response. They speak to the British people’s patience running out. What we began asking for in 2021, and will continue to ask for, is a better world.

Despite the many heartbreaking events of this year, they have also managed to awaken activism in a large portion of us. The vigils, climate protests, articles and digital activism efforts proved that we care, and we’re no longer accepting those who don’t. Just a quick scroll through TikTok or Instagram will show passionate digital activists demanding the prioritisation of backing social funding over police funding and opinion columns were filled with bright ideas about how we can preserve our planet and lessen the threat of climate change. We also stepped out from behind our screens and to the streets, with cities around the UK demanding better systems to combat violence, and save our planet.

Though we quietly hoped it would be gone by now, the ongoing pandemic continues to expose the enormous contradictions and inequalities of our societies, leading more and more of us to speak up about it. Which, once again, brings me to the fine thread that miraculously held us whole throughout 2021—our ability and freedom to say ‘no’.

No to the small things like low rise jeans trying to wriggle their way back into our wardrobes, no to the control we previously let our terrible jobs have on our own happiness, finally handing over that resignation letter, and no to the ongoing violence left unchecked by a corrupt government that does very little about it—all the while refusing to give us clear guidance or protection during a deadly pandemic.

As the year now draws to a close with a recent North Shropshire win to the Liberal Democrats, renewable energy at a record high, and the Violence Against Women and Girls (VAWG) consultation reopening, we can confidently say change is afoot for 2022—all thanks to everyone fighting. This year, we had enough. We learned how to be defiant. And now is the time to use our teachings, moving forward, to our fullest capabilities.

‘Tis the season of hair tinsels, here’s how you can DIY the trend

Have you ever had the seasonal urge to rip a Christmas tree decoration and implant it into your hair instead? Trust me, I’m going somewhere with this. And given your commitment issues this cuffing season, I bet you’ll tag along—as we shift back into the magical era of hair tinsels, here to spice up those greasy locks you’ve been stuffing into beanies all December.

What are hair tinsels?

Remember Beyoncé running the world with glitter in her hair back in 2010? Yes, I’m talking about those “metallic wispy thingies”—as the media once called them—attached to her honey-hued locks as she strutted down the red carpet. Although Queen B was criticised and even mocked for “taking down her Christmas tree before the Grammys and forgetting to pull the extra tinsel out,” she fronted the rise of a dreamy new hair trend that is presently making an iridescent comeback—coupled with gen Z’s love-hate relationship with the early aughts.

Also known as fairy hair or glitter hair, hair tinsels are sparkly strands that can be weaved into your original hair at the root. With a variety of colours available for you to choose from, you can either opt to sprinkle them throughout your hair while embedding, or go all out and double your head up as full-blown cheerleading pom poms. In the chicest way possible, of course.

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Capable of withstanding the tests of time for a maximum period of eight weeks, hair tinsels can be subjected to washing, brushing, blow-drying, curling and of course, straightening. Heck, a couple of them are even chemical-free and have a heat resistance of up to 392°F (200°C). If someone asked me to name a versatile beauty invention, these tiny strings might be it. Packing for Coachella 2022 already? Stuff half of your suitcase with iridescent packets of hair tinsels—guaranteed to shine like the stars when the sun catches a glimpse of them. Want to channel your inner Queen B in front of your sunset lamp instead? You know where I’m going with this. They’ll also make a perfect addition to your addiction to meta selfies and digital flash photography.

Not only do the tie-in strands offer an inexpensive way to incorporate dimension and highlights into our locks, they do so without the commitment of permanent changes that are typically required to switch up our looks. In fact, you can have a major hair transformation if you choose to go all out on the trend. Sure, cheerleading pom poms might come into the equation if you have a sibling daring enough to tease you. But hey, you can always clip on and remove these baddies in the flick of an eye and flick their eyes in the process. Win-win, am I right?

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A shimmery resurgence rooted in nostalgia

Credited to the Y2K movement, the resurgence of hair tinsels can be traced back to 2019—when singer-songwriter Kacey Musgraves looped them into her ponytail during her world tour. Since then, the trend has been replicated by brands like Insert Name Here Hair (INH Hair). A couple of months later, even actress Saoirse Ronan pulled off a variation of the emerging trend in the form of a braided crown.

On TikTok, hair tinsels seem to have a mind of their own. With 53 million views and counting on #hairtinsel, users gathered here are increasingly manifesting themselves into the signs others are looking for to jump on the trend. Decked with hair tutorials, styling advice and colour recommendations, the videos depict the versatility of the hair accessory. One example of the beauty affirmations you can fish out is that the length of your hair doesn’t really matter to participate in the trend. On Amazon, hair tinsels are available in a variety of options for the number of strands and the length you want to purchase per packet—the longest being 47 inches with 100 tinsels. And once you embed these, you can always choose to trim them with the level of your original hair. Pixie cut babes, it’s time to live out your wildest Lisa Frank dreams—well into 2022 and beyond.

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If all of this talk has piqued your interest, I’ve got you covered. After spending an eternity down the shimmery rabbithole of hair tinsels, I’ve raked up all the DIY methods—along with all the dos and don’ts—to begin your journey into the sparkly style. For starters, decide the type of look you want to go for. You can either choose to keep the glitter subtle with peek-a-boo strands or blind your neighbours with heavy embeds. Once you make up your mind, Amazon is the magical platform you want to hit—in order to make your fairy hair dreams come true on a budget. A rough idea of the final output will then help guide your choices for the colour, number of strands and length. However, there’s a catch. There’ll be two options available for you to choose from: one with just the packet of strands, and the other with a complete DIY tool set.

These two alternatives loop into the method of installation that you prefer. The first technique is what I would term a ‘freestyle tinsel’. All you need are the sparkly strands and your ambidextrous hands. What you want to do is grab a piece of tinsel and fold it in half to make a loop. Now, you have to tie a slip knot here by pulling the ends of the strands through the loop you’ve made using your index and thumb finger. Don’t tighten the knot all the way just yet. Choose the preferred place to embed the baddies on your head and section off a few strands of your original hair. Now loop the tinsel with your anchor hair, tighten and pull down towards your scalp. For extra security, you can make another slip knot or choose to tie a double knot with each side of the tinsel strand.

As for the second method, your DIY kit will arrive with a packet of microbeads—known as guards, available in the colour of your original hair—along with a sectioning tool and a clamper. The first step here is to take your hair tinsel and bead a guard before tying it in a knot at the center of the strand. Next, pick up the bead with your long sectioning tool, part the perfect piece of hair on your head with the hook end of the tool and pull it through the bead. Then get your hand on the clamper and squish the bead until they flatten out and tighten into your hair. And voila, you’re done. Oh, and don’t forget to trim the excess. Or leave them in if you’d prefer otherwise. Your hair, your rules.

When it comes to removing hair tinsels, you can either choose to slide them off in the first method—provided you haven’t tightened the soul out of the strand—or take the clamping tool and press the bead open in the opposite direction of what you had secured it earlier. If properly installed, the beauty innovation will cause zero damage to your hair while sprucing up your aura.

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♬ Back To Black - Amy Winehouse

With strategic minimalism in the forefront, hair tinsels are guaranteed to level up your muted cardigans all winter. Plus, they’re great conversation starters—for the better or the worse depending on the crowd—unlike that one time your crush pointed out a glittery strand of grey hair on your head years ago. Blonde locks might be cheugy but blonde with hair tinsels are definitely not. And given the motto of this festive season, the more the merrier.