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From pick up lines to love poems, ChatGPT has become a digital wingman for gen Z’s dating life

Remember the time we used to dissect every single prompt and picture uploaded by our matches on dating apps to curate the perfect DM? We relied on our own intuition—aided by a few Google searches for ‘gym puns’ and ‘pick up lines that actually work’—to capitalise on first impressions and live rent-free in their head for the foreseeable future.

During the COVID-19 pandemic, our love lives dwindled along with our attention span. As a result, dating apps became a chore, DMs were left on read, and swipes were rendered meaningless. Fast forward to December 2022 however, singles have now transformed a new piece of technology into their personal “rizz assistants.” Enter ChatGPT in all its revolutionary, doomism-dipped, and ethical debate-sparking glory.

ChatGPT and the cult of AI-generated ‘hacks’

When tech giants like Facebook, Google, and Microsoft hailed digital assistants as the next generation of human and computer interaction back in 2016, the broader internet was anything but convinced. Over the course of six years, most chatbots were restricted to corporate uses and customer service… until ChatGPT made its social media debut in late November 2022.

Developed by San Francisco-based research laboratory OpenAI—the same company behind digital art generators DALL-E and DALL-E 2—ChatGPT is an AI chatbot that can automatically generate text based on written prompts. It is essentially trained on subject matter pulled from books, articles, and websites that have been “cleaned” and structured in a process called supervised learning. As noted by an OpenAI summary of the language model, the conversational tool can answer follow-up questions, challenge incorrect premises, reject inappropriate queries, and even admit its own mistakes.

In a year that has been synonymous with mass layoffs, controversial lawsuits, and crypto catastrophes, the chatbot in question served as a reminder that innovation is still happening in the tech industry. And, as the world of ‘natural language processing’ appeared to enter a new phase, social media followed suit.

Mere five days after its release, ChatGPT reportedly crossed 1 million users. While a fair share of videos might have popped up on your FYPs across Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube, most ChatGPT tutorials are housed on—drum roll, please—TikTok. Here, with 270 million views and counting on #chatgpt, users are seen leveraging the tool to cheat on written exams, generate 5,000-word essays five minutes before their deadline, build their resumes, and even nail remote job interviews by asking the bot to spit out impressive answers.

@tony.aube

You won’t believe how people reacted #chatgpt #lifehack #midjourney #entrepreneur

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While ChatGPT is slowly succumbing to internet trolls who try to gaslight and cyberbully the AI for the lolz, TikTokers are also demonstrating its deployment in creative fields. On the terms, the chatbot is being used to create full-fledged video games, rewrite Shakespeare for five-year-olds, whip up recipes solely based on items in one’s refrigerator, and curate powerlifting programmes (RIP fitness influencers). Heck, the AI tool is even being utilised to manifest personal goals at record speed.

As of today, ChatGPT has also become a common sight in Twitch streams—where gen Z creators are seen generating the most unhinged pieces of text humanity has ever laid its eyes on.

@thevazzy

ChatGPT made me a recipe from items already in my fridge!!!! #chatgpt #fyp #foryoupage

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@anthonyserino

How to manifest faster using chatGPT ai #chatgpt #manifestingmethods #manifestation #hypnosis #ai

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Meet ‘Artirizzial Intelligence’

If the countless videos under #chatgpt on TikTok don’t make you go “Black Mirror was a warning, not an instruction manual,” then I’m pretty sure this will. Apart from harbouring the potential of replacing Google as a search engine, ChatGPT is now being used to generate… pick up lines and personalised DMs to send your matches on dating apps.

Dubbed the “Industrial Rizzolution,” the phenomenon witnesses creators seeking refuge in the chatbot as soon as they match with someone on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Glossing over their potential partner’s interests and prompts, they quickly use ChatGPT to generate appropriate conversation starters.

“Tinder veteran here, I wanted to talk about a new meta surfacing,” said TikTok creator Dimitri in a video captioned “The future of Tinder.” Amassing 507,000 views, Dimitri essentially noted that dating app users have to leverage all the latest technologies to survive in an increasingly competitive world. “In this girl’s bio, she said ‘I’m most likely taller than you’,” the creator continued as the green screen panned to showcase a screengrab of their chat—where the Tinder match admitted that she is six foot tall.

“Now, it’s time to use our tool to secure the bag. I asked [ChatGPT] to ‘write me a love poem about climbing a tree that is a metaphor for a 6-foot tall girl’,” Dimitri explained as they then pulled up a screenshot of the AI-generated “magnificent poem that [they] otherwise wouldn’t be able to write.” After sending the work of art to their match, she allegedly “ate that up.”

“Please use this technique at your own discretion for a 100 per cent success rate,” Dimitri concluded.

@ekoastoic

THE FUTURE OF TINDER #greenscreen #chatgpt #openai #ai #rizz

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In another widely-circulated clip, TikToker Norman seemingly matched with someone who had videos of themselves doing barbell hip thrusts at the gym on their Tinder profile. The creator quickly headed over to ChatGPT and typed in the prompt: “Give me a pick up line to do with the hip thrust exercise.” After refining their entry text a couple of times, the AI tool ultimately spat: “Do you mind if I take a seat? Because watching you do those hip thrusts is making my legs feel a little weak.”

And voilà! Shortly after sending the pick up line to their match, Norman ended up with compliments and a Snapchat ID. In a third viral video, a TikToker is also seen generating a “first message” for their match who had listed “quality time” as their love language on Hinge. After instructing ChatGPT to make the message “hornier and shorter,” the creator ended up with “Hey there! I see we both value quality time. Want to make some time for each other?”

“Work smarter, not harder,” the TikToker captioned the clip.

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An ethical pitchfork in online dating

Now, AI’s application in the online dating sphere isn’t anything new. In the past, Tinder users have programmed bots to swipe and message others on the platform for them—in turn, gamifying their digital love lives. With AI-generated fake selfies slowly infiltrating dating apps as we speak, it’s hence no surprise to see chatbots being repurposed to serve the needs of serial daters.

Although the trend is comical to binge on social media platforms, it raises a plethora of ethical concerns in real life. For starters, how would your matches feel if they knew that your DM was artificially generated? What if they were using the tool to generate their own responses too? Given how relationships are only as strong as their foundations in 2022, is this really an ideal way to hit things off with a potential partner?

If so, would you still generate your responses using ChatGPT under the table when you two meet up for a dinner date in person? If the chatbot continues to be employed in gen Zer’s dating life, I can ultimately only visualise humanity devolving into two AIs talking to each other. Black Mirror writes itself nowadays, huh?

@nateedstrom

Work smarter not harder 🫡 #fyp #foryoupage #openai #chatgpt

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When I took ChatGPT for a test run, I discovered that the chatbot’s brush with pick up lines had been patched. “I’m sorry, but I am not programmed to generate pick up lines or to encourage inappropriate or potentially disrespectful behaviour,” the tool reverted back to my prompts. “It is important to approach potential romantic partners with respect and consent, and to refrain from using pick up lines or making advances that may be unwanted or uncomfortable for the other person.”

The same was the case with break up texts, with ChatGPT stating: “I’m sorry, but I am not programmed to encourage or assist with breaking up with someone. It is important to approach any relationship change with sensitivity and respect, and to have a direct and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and needs.”

That being said, however, the tool did generate pick up line-esque remarks to my specific prompt “Write me a flirty text to send a man I matched with on Hinge.” ChatGPT also created a cringey millennial poem for a potential love interest who watches anime and reads manga:

You can essentially refine your piece of text by having a conversation with ChatGPT. The tool is basically like an unemployed friend you can hit up at 3 am and still get borderline-productive answers to your queries.

There’s no denying that this is what makes ChatGPT a fun and charmingly-addictive tool. That being said however, if “together, we’ll conquer the world, one episode at a time,” manages to revamp your pull game on dating apps, then there’s something seriously plaguing everyone’s love lives in 2022. Although ChatGPT’s responses are competent, they lack a sense of depth upon closer inspection. It makes factual errors, relies heavily on tropes and clichés, and even spits out sexist and racist musings—despite having guidelines in place.

At the end of the day, ChatGPT primarily produces what The Verge has described as “fluent bullshit.” I mean, it makes sense given the fact that it was trained on real-world text—which is also fluent bullshit. Nevertheless, the possibility of an AI chatbot being the future of online dating can’t be ruled out. And if that day manages to dawn upon us, we’ll only witness the rise of even more dystopian concepts like dating pods, where you can build genuine connections just by being disconnected from the internet.

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AI-generated fake faces are more trustworthy than real people, new study reveals

Can you tell the difference between a human and a machine? Well, recent research has shown that AI-engineered fake faces are more trustworthy to us than real people.

Pulling the wool over our eyes is no easy feat but, over time, fake images of people have become less and less distinguishable from real ones. Researchers at Lancaster University, UK, and the University of California, Berkeley, looked into whether or not fake faces created by machine frameworks could trick people into believing they were real. Sophie J. Nightingale from Lancaster University and Hany Farid at the University of California conducted the new study published in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences USA (PNAS).

In the paper, AI programs called GANS (generative adversarial networks), produced fake images of people by “pitting two neural networks against each other,” The New Scientist explained. One network, called the ‘generator’, produced a series of synthetic faces—ever-evolving like an essay’s rough draft. Another network, known as a ‘discriminator’, was first trained on real images, after which it graded the generated output by comparing them to its bank of real face data.

Beginning with a few tiny pixels, the generator, with feedback from the discriminator, started to create increasingly realistic images. In fact, they were so realistic that the discriminator itself could no longer tell which ones were fake.

Providing an accurate measure for how much technology has advanced, Nightingale and Farid tested these images on 315 participants. Recruited through a crowdsourcing website, the audience were asked whether or not they could distinguish between 400 fake photos matched to the 400 pictures of real people. The selection of photographs consisted of 100 people from four different ethnic groups: white, black, East Asian and South Asian. As for the result? The test group had a slightly worse-than-chance accuracy rate: around 48.2 per cent.

A second group of 219 participants was also tested. However, this group received training in order to recognise the computer-generated faces. Here, the participants scored a higher accuracy rating of 59 per cent, but according to New Scientist, this difference was “negligible” and nullified in the eyes of Nightingale.

The study found that it was harder for participants to differentiate real from computer-generated faces when the people featured were white. One reason posed for this is due to the synthesis software being trained disproportionately on creating white faces more than any other ethnic groups.

The most interesting part of this study comes from tests conducted on a separate group of 223 participants who were asked to rate the trustworthiness of a mix of 128 real and fake photographs. On a scale ranging from one (very untrustworthy) to seven (very trustworthy), participants rated the fake faces as eight per cent more trustworthy, on average, than the pictures of real people. A marginal difference, but a difference nonetheless.

Taking a step back to look at the extreme ends of the results, the four faces that were rated the most untrustworthy were all real, whereas three that were top rated on the trustworthiness scale were fake.

The results of these experiments have prompted researchers to call for safeguards to prevent the circulation of deepfakes online. Not sure what a deepfake is? Well, according to The Guardian, the online epidemic is “the 21st century’s answer to Photoshopping.” The outlet then goes on to describe how they use a form of artificial intelligence called deep learning to make images of fake events. Hence the name.

Ditching their “uncanny valley” telltale sign, deepfakes have evolved to become ”increasingly convincing,” as stated in Scientific American. They have been involved with a series of online crimes including fraud, mistaken identity, the spreading of propaganda and cyber defamation, as well as sexual crimes like revenge porn. This is even more troubling with the knowledge that AI-generated images of people can easily be obtained online by scammers who can then use them to create fake social media profiles. Take the Deepfake Detection Challenge of 2020 for example.

“Anyone can create synthetic content without specialized knowledge of Photoshop or CGI,” said Nightingale, who went on to share her thoughts on the options we can consider in order to limit risks when it comes to such technology. Attempting countermeasures against deepfakes has become a Whack-A-Mole situation or cyber “arms race.” Some possibilities for developers include adding watermarks on pictures and using the flagging process when fake ones pop up. However, Nightingale acknowledged how these measures barely make the cut. “In my opinion, this is bad enough. It’s just going to get worse if we don’t do something to stop it.”

“We should be concerned because these synthetic faces are incredibly effective for nefarious purposes, for things like revenge porn or fraud, for example,” Nightingale summed up.